Processing Trauma & PTSD
The hummingbird teaches us to transcend time, to recognize that what has happened in the past and what might happen in the future is not nearly as important as what we are experiencing now. It teaches us to hover in the moment, to appreciate its sweetness.
Constance Barrett Sohodski
What is trauma?
Trauma results from an event, series of events, or set of circumstances that is experienced by an individual as physically or emotionally harmful or threatening and that has lasting adverse effects on the individual's functioning and physical, social, emotional or spiritual well-being. In short, trauma is the sum of the event, the experience, and the effect.
Wilson, C. Ford, J. (2102) SAMHSA's Trauma & Traum-Informed Care Exerts Meeting
How does trauma affect me?
A traumatic experience impacts the entire person - the way we think, the way we learn, the way we remember things, the way we feel about ourselves, the way we feel about other people, and the way we make sense of the world are all profoundly altered by traumatic experiences.
Bessel van der Kolk; From the final action plan, a coordinated response to family violence October 1999
Common concerns…
Are you having trouble sleeping, plagued by nightmares or distressing thoughts about traumatic situations you have experienced before or after the medical condition or complex need was diagnosed?
Have you experienced reminders of a difficult experiences that distress you, such as learning about the diagnosis or life-threatening aspects of the medical illness or complex need?
Do you avoid certain places because they trigger strong emotional responses or physical sensations?
Do you sometimes wonder if you caused the medical condition or complex need, if you contributed to suffering in some way, or if you might have been able to avoid the diagnosis?
Do you have difficulty feeling positive emotions and feel hopeless about the future because you are always on guard, waiting for the next shoe to drop?
How can therapy help me?
Therapy can…
provide you with a comfortable, non-judgmental space to process upsetting or traumatic situations
help you recognize and change troubling emotions, thoughts, and behaviors
help you develop skills to help identify triggers and manage symptoms
help you create distance from emotional responses to problems to make it easier to identify unhelpful thoughts and look at situations objectively
help you gain more control over your thoughts and feelings about the trauma, which can reduce negative impacts on your life, work and relationships